I don't care how 'perfect' you and your partner are- he/she is guaranteed to piss you off. This is something I found hard to grasp and would often bite my tongue when Mr Caramel fucked me off.
Sometime on and I've realised the shut up method will build resentment. And boy does it build. I'd find myself watching TV and casting him the dirtiest looks I could produce, much to his bewilderment. That confused face would piss me off even more and I'd think how can he not know why! Errrr because the poor sod isn't a mind reader-that's why! (And tbh thank gosh he isn't ;)
I thought I could bury angry feelings/murderous thoughts but after an incident in the kitchen where I exploded over a bacon sandwich I knew I couldn't.
Now don't get me wrong. I am probably one of the most laid back people but Mr Caramel has seen me really loose it. FYI I don't loose it in a dignified way. I got so angry after said sandwich incident that I threw my glasses off my face and screamed like Tarzan. I then couldn't see to find them and he watched whilst I patted around the floor before eventually storming off, glasses-less and blind.
My point? Just fucking say if something has annoyed you. A simple I didn't like that/it pissed me off because of X, Y and Z is SO much better (and dignified) then a screaming match.
So stop and think. Are you angry with your partner? Have you ever TOLD he/she why? Spell it out people! If they don't listen then yeah be angry cos they're an ass pipe.
Robbin da Good
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